I have dedicated my life to helping others emotionally heal and achieve their greatest dreams. They KEY to achieving this goal is unique to each person. However, every individual is fully capable of attaining greatness. Despite the limiting beliefs you are currently telling yourself, you can obtain your ultimate desires once you have unlocked your maximum potential.
But how do you make the necessary changes to achieve your goals? There are numerous programs, models, and approaches all designed to help you do so. I have gone through many of them myself. Some of them possess tremendous value. However, after leaving the seminars, or hearing a dynamic speaker, most of the information is forgotten and the enthusiasm fades over a period of days, weeks, or months.
Looking for something you already possess
What started out as a sincere effort to change has ended in another failed attempt. After working with thousands of clients, I have discovered several reasons for this. The first is we are regularly looking outside of ourselves for someone to give us the magic formula or instill in us some aptitude or talent that will lead to our success. The reality is we are looking for something we already possess.
Great leaders, coaches, and teachers don't give you some ability only they have, they help you unlock what is already there. Even when it comes to physical healings, the research shows the effectiveness of the intervention is predicated on the belief of the patient and the physician in its efficacy. I can assure you, everything you need to succeed is already inside of you.
No magic formula
Another impediment to success is our belief there is some magic formula that exists. While there are certain aspects of people's stories that parallel, there is a uniqueness to how people have obtained their dreams and goals. Any help you obtain, whether it is a program or coaching, needs to be individualized in some way. No two people are exactly alike or value the same things. I have to individualize a process for each of my clients.
The final, and most important, aspect of why people fail to succeed, is the inability to utilize their core emotions to their full potential. This is the ultimate KEY to success. Everything you do every second of the day is associated with some form of emotional experience, whether you are aware of it or not. You may have acquired all of this brilliant information from external resources, but if you have not learned how to harness your greatest internal resource (core emotions) you will fail to achieve your primary goals.
The positive news is you already possess what you need most to create the life you desire. Although effective strategies and specialized knowledge is important, they are meaningless if you cannot implement them. In my experience, the lack of ability to take the necessary action is always an emotional block.
Master your inner world to master your outer one
You have the power to change in an instance. But to do so requires going within prior to going outside and beyond. Gain mastery of your internal world, and you will master your outer one as well. Your emotions are your greatest resource. They have evolved for just this purpose. Take the time to learn how to harness their potential. Everything comes down to your emotions. Everything!
The core of what I teach my client is how to use their core emotions to their full capacity. They have life-changing experiences as a result. It is so far beyond hype, motivation, or information. They leave as a new biological self. You are fully capable of achieving this as well. A couple of resources to gain a greater understanding of this process is one of my mentors Ron Frederick's book, Living Like You Mean it, or Eileen Russell's, Restoring Resilience You can find them both on Amazon.
Take the necessary steps today to begin the journey of mastering your core emotions. It will change your entire life. I promise. You are capable of more than you can even imagine. The power to change is within you. Don't let another day go by living a life less accomplished, fulfilled, and excited than you could.
John Hawkins Jr., M.S., L.M.H.C.
John has helped thousands of clients overcome the hidden internal blocks which had kept them from achieving their maximum potential. Furthermore, he has assisted them in gaining clarity of their true life purpose, identifying their gifts and talents, and developing lives of greater meaning and significance.